I am the window to his world...

I have been thinking about writing the first post after becoming a mother since a few days. Have deleted two posts already because they did not feel right. They did not have the right words, the right expression to describe this phase, this feeling...finally with this third post I guess I am pretty close to what I want to say.
Since I have brought my little angel home, I have been spending a lot of time in my bedroom....I am busy tending to Evan's needs at all times. Today while making him sleep something struck me like lighting. I was looking outside from the window and it was raining very heavily. The window of my bedroom has been entertaining me, refreshing me and mesmerizing me whenever I have been too tired from the fatigue. This window has been a channel through which I look into the outside world. Its my secret path to think outside the bedroom for a little while, get connected to the world which for the time being is not available to me. While these thoughts were rolling into my mind..I realised that "I am the window to my baby boy's world". He will see what I show him, he will feel what I let him feel...I determine everything that he will be in the future. And it was such an incredible feeling. He is like the softest clay and I have to mould him, also spoil him at times. But surprisingly this thought did not scare me...it gave me immense happiness.
For now he is busy looking at the fan and conversing with the curtains and the tubelight...he now smiles and even laughs at times. As parents we both are enjoying this phase to the fullest!
Evan has given birth to a new "ME" and I cant wait to explore myself as a mother. Sometimes I cant believe that he is all mine! He is and will be the apple of my eye forever! Love you my baby!

On the brim....

As promised to a friend, I am writing this post. I am blank to be honest...maybe I have been on a break for too long to be able to write again!! :)
I have been occupied as I have been experiencing something very unique. Right now I am on the brim of motherhood. I have seen so many of my friends and cousins swirl beautifully in the role of a mother. Now, I am watching myself. I am loving it.
There are hardly any days left now. I will be soon holding my little one in my arms.
I am so much looking forward to the fragrance of Johnson products refreshing my home! Also looking forward to see the transition of my hubby dearest to a dotting father. For now, he is even scared of the thought of holding our baby in his arms, but I am confident that he will be just fine!

My blog will be about a whole new ME from my next post onwards! :)

I LOST MY CELL ..... YET AGAIN!

I am feeling terrible today. I lost my cell phone for the 4th time in a span of about 8 years. Its my carelessness and nothing else that is to be blamed. I feel a phobia to buy a new cell again. I am so damn scared that I might lose it again!
The very first time, I lost it in an autorikshaw. The second time I lost two cells while traveling in a bus, someone flicked it from my purse! I might have left the side zip open. The fourth cell I lost it last night at Dominos, Sion. I called them but they say that they did not find any cell phone while cleaning the table.

Guys I need your help here!! Please suggest me three things.

1. How to gather courage to buy a new cell?

2. What should be my strategy in buying a new cell?? Should I buy a cheap one so that I don’t feel a financial loss if I lose it again OR should I buy a good cell so that I value it a lot and be utmost careful about it!
3. Innovative ways of using a cell so that I can minimize the chances of forgetting it. My brother just suggested that I should attach it to my bag or hang it around my neck.

I feel awful and extremely foolish for being so careless and lost in my own thoughts that I become totally unaware of the things around me. When Amit is with me he takes care and carries my mobile if I forget. Well, I cannot expect him to be with me all the time!!!!
Ahhhaannn….I feel yuck! I feel so bad…..!!!

Help!!Help!!Help!!

P.S. My colleague just called and told me that even she lost her cell for the fourth time last week. Am smiling just a little bit. Just a little.

Wake Up!!

I always end up thinking about the missing ingredient which will bring magic to my life. Make it more alive. Today while chatting with a friend I realized that it is nothing but sheer lack of dedication and determination in my life. I have become very lazy and lethargic and I need to change that. I crib about my chubby face, I complain about my stomach flab, I get irritated about my headache, but never do anything about it.
At some point in time I do feel motivated and enthusiastic but then it’s too short-lived to even talk about.

I give up on myself too soon. I leave it half way too often. It’s high time I give myself a punch and make myself aware that life has more to offer than I am taking from it.

I need to target a goal now, as it is rightly said in the movie “Lakshya”, there has to be a goal in life, otherwise you drift away, you drift apart from everything.
I have decided that I will not complain about things that are not in my hand; I will do my thing and relax.

I have to give my life what it deserves if I am demanding from it. I have to take efforts if I want to look gorgeous. I have to start if I want it to begin. I have to smile if I want to be happy. I have to be disciplined if I want to enjoy.

Here’s a post to the new “me”. I will take charge of my life now. I am going to start loving myself like never before. I want to fall in love again, with myself. Because I am worth it!

Being truly alive is something we forget amidst in life..

How life changes. How we let it change us. How it wipes our identity slowly and gradually. How we let it take charge. How we become a different human being altogether. How we become someone we are not. How we keep wondering what happened? How we feel helpless that it’s not the same. How we cry inside our hearts and wish to god he brings back everything we lost. How we promise to him that we won’t let it slip away.

But time never comes back. Does it?

I am seven; I am traveling with my parents and my little brother in our sweet little Maruti 800. I am peeping outside the window, to feel the wind outside. My parents keep warning me. I listen to them for a while, but get tempted to feel the strong wind on my face, while it forcibly closes my eye lashes, makes it difficult to breathe… I still love it. I enjoy it, in its natural form, crude and true. I laugh and laugh more.

I am eight. I am running, playing chor police with my cousins in the courtyard. I never wear chappals. The stones in the yard never hurt my feet. They mud never spoils me. The sweat never bothers me. My mom calls my name, asks to buy some milk from the nearby store. I gladly agree. I wink at my best friend. We start running. It’s a race. Who reaches first and eats a mouthful of raw rice from the gunny bag of the little store with a broken roof is the question. Laughter never leaves our faces.

I am nine. My mom is asking what I am going to wear to the birthday party I am about to go. I announce happily, that I am going to wear the same dress I wore the previous day! My mom shouts back, informs me I could wear the new dress my aunt has brought for me. But I don’t budge. The dress I want to wear is the one I love the most. I don’t care if it’s not dry cleaned. I don’t wonder if anybody would notice me repeating it. I merrily wear it and join the party.

I am 13. I and my friends are returning from our classes. We are hungry. We enter a joint. Buy Wada pav, hog on it. Crack jokes on each other. Tease a few teachers with secret names. Discuss the current gossip in school. What we eat is not the question. We fill our stomach because we are hungry, never forgetting to enjoy every bit of the food and the gossip of course.

Today though I am mature enough to know how to live, I still can’t figure out why I cannot enjoy the wind on my face anymore, why I can never walk without chappals. The stones suddenly are too hurtful. Why I am so careful about what I wear, why I worry so much before eating anything! Do we all lose the true sense of living life to the fullest when we grow up? I guess so.

Five things!!

Scribbling again in my blog!
Five things you should always place on your office desk and your car.

Your office desk should have –

1.On the pin up board at least one photograph of anything that makes you happy, be it a picture you clicked when you met your good old friends, maybe one funny photo of your pet or of your favourite sitcom.

2. Smart visiting cards stand to place your cards on it, so that you don’t have to dig your messy purse to find one when you need to give!!

3. A clock, to make you realize, its lunch time while you are busy in work!

4. A pen stand, of a bright colour, a shocking red or a bright blue to make your desk a little colourful than the others!

5. Last but the least, something godly, anything you have faith in. Something that keeps you going when nothing seems right.


Your car should have –

1. A Mobile charger, most important guys!! Imagine you are talking to your boss, explaining him why you are late and your battery gives up on you!!

2. Good collection of songs to keep your cool, well in India you have to take efforts to keep your cool friends!!


3. Water bottle….in case you are stuck up in traffic, don’t have a clue of reaching anywhere, listening a nice song in your air conditioned car….instead of enjoying the song, you would keep thinking…”damn why dint I bring water with me!”

4. Tissue paper, imagine you eat something and you have nothing to wipe your hands to, all you have got is your pants!!

5. Air freshener or car perfume…. Picture this, you have to pick or drop someone….after they get out from your car and you cry out loud wishing you had a freshener!!

Will come up with more on FIVE THINGS!! Keep reading..

Life is an irony :)

I am saturated today. I will have to write, scribble, and mumble something with my blog today. Otherwise I won’t be able to think a thing! It’s been a roller coaster ride for me all these months. Initially when I shifted to Mumbai I was all excited, happy and eagerly waiting for the fun to begin, for the parties to rock, for the dance to start and for the music to never end….then I settled. I realized its not always fun! I had to look for a job, which I had thought was going to be as easy as waking up in the morning! Well I was proved wrong! That phase of my life was really bad. Family and friends told me to give it some time, enjoy my vacant time, relax and have some fun, but all I was thinking was, I will never find a job, I will end up sitting home all my life, that we should not have shifted, that our life was so perfect in Chennai, that everything had ruined, etc. then one day I found a job suitable to my experience and profile. I was happy, thought how stupid I was to think of such extremes earlier. I was excited that finally my routine will start; I will not waste my days doing nothing productive, watching TV, lazing around with no motive. My ambitious side popped its hood the highest; I was raring to go, to join office, to start working, to set my life on track again.
I have joined more than a month back. Now I am busy as hell, with household chores, office work, and my brother is getting married in 12 days from now, so totally busy with that too. Merely 3 days of leave I can manage to get as it’s a “new job”. I don’t have time to breathe and so I am wondering about life more than ever. How at one point it gives you all the time in the world to relax, rejoice and analyze yourself but you don’t want it at that time….when you want it really bad it growls back at you and says, “When I offered you the time you wanted, you didn’t utilize it. Now don’t sulk!! “ ! It’s such an irony. Isn’t’ it? :) :) :)

Dont forget to remember....

There are some things in life you should never forget to remember…..whatever your age is, how much ever busy you are, even when you believe that you don’t care much……am going to list them down …..I know each and every one of you will agree to me…

The unbelievable happiness experienced while meeting your oldest friends…

The fragrance of new clothes and old books…

The sheer joy of spending a day at home with family...

The refreshing cup of tea amidst an intensely busy day at work…

The fun in getting drenched in the cold rain drops…

The soothing warm water of the shower while you bath…

The merriment in dressing up and admiring yourself in mirror…

The amazement in driving to office on a holiday because there isn’t any traffic…

The delight in humming a song you love while you cook or dress up…

The fun in bursting the balloons after the party is over...

The momentary happiness is always missed……we yearn for a longer, unseen happiness which is far away…..and let go off the immediate moments of unfiltered joy……Dont worry about things that might happen or are bound to happen....realise today before it fades away...
Well, I have been away for a while now, from blogging and surfing….but today I felt like writing this post so I took out time for it…but I am sure I will be back with more…I have finally shifted to Mumbai and enjoying life in my home town….starting newly from where I had left off …..I wasn’t even able to follow any of your blogs….I will be back when I feel like from inside….soon…pretty soon…

Chennai Charm!!

Chennai is city with amazing infrastructure, lush green trees, beautiful temples and bunglows... not many sky rising towers. Its a magical blend of both worlds...modern and old. Now that I am going to leave this city, I fill my heart with all the things that I loved about it. Here are only some glimpses of the city's spirit...I promise there will be more photos coming up. Enjoy!


Nariyal Paani


Kasturbai Nagar Station, Adyar



Isnt he cute.... :)


Theosophical Society, Adyar


Theosophical Society, Adyar

I am Going Home - I am interupting the guest posts!!

I am elated right now, because I am going back to my home. I have lived in Chennai for almost 2 years now, but this above mentioned quote I guess describes the long and short of it. I have liked this city for its goodness. But I have never stopped missing my hometown. Not also for a single bit of moment.
I came here, with countless dreams in my heart and a little fear in my mind. I never knew how this city, the people would treat me. I met some really good people, who helped me, who supported me, who guided me. But I always found something missing. I always missed friends more than anything. I never had a group of girlfriends here, whom I could share my everyday stuff with. I was used to it back in Mumbai. I had so many friends. Here I had only Amit. I had no life apart from work and home. No hanging out with the gang, no evenings to meet friends, no fun actually. We created fun with whatever resources we had!! But it was never enough. We mostly cribbed, and then moved on, because there was no option. But now I do have an option. I am taking it up!
I am going back to my own land, where people speak the same language as I do, they eat the same food that I do, they watch the same movies that I do, they listen to the same music that I do….where people know me inside out…where I can be myself…without any compromises…any obstacles….I can live among people who understand me….
I am so relieved…..really. I can’t express in words. It’s not like Chennai is not a good place to live in. But it’s good only if you can speak Tamil, if you can eat rice all the time, you can enjoy tollywood movies……etc…
I could not manage any of it! But I have decided something amazing to do. I am going to click loads of photos that reflect the essence of this peaceful serene city. I have no complains….I am going to miss my home here….It was the very first home after our marriage ….I know I am not going to find a home even closer to this one in Mumbai….this house will always remain special ….not because it was big... not because of 24 hours water...not because of "no load shedding"...not because it was in a chic location, not because it had an open to sky balcony….…..….only because it was our very own first home!
My next post will have only photographs, of some of the things that I observed in this city, some amusing, some really funny, some sweet……watch out for more...

Raising a toast....for the 50th post!! :)

I am on my 49th post, it feels really nice. I started blogging about 1 and a half year back, I used to write in my diary ealrier ...but then one of my friend introduced me to this amazing concept and I got hooked on to it. Initially I used to write rarely, but now that I have so many blogger friends I feel motivated to write more. I feel so good to express something here...so far no one has judged me or tried to give unwanted advice. All of you readers have been great friends. Some times in life, you know you wont be able to talk it out..thats when writing helps. Blogging is a wonderful habbit that I am used to now, and I never ever want to give up on it...at times, I might be busy and write less...at times I might be writing continuously!! But I will keep it going, because I really enjoy it. Thanks to the whole Blospot team, who make it so userfriendly and most importantly free!
But also, I am not so much into technicalities, so frankly speaking I dont even know how to post a name of a person which can lead to their blog :P I will learn it eventually. LOLz..
To celebrate my 50th post, I am going to invite a few blogger friends to post on my blog, anything that they feel about the blog or maybe nothing related to the blog...I hope you all will have fun reading those guest posts...

On this ocassion I would like to thank each and everyone who has commented on my blog and encouraged me to write more, at times disagreed with my posts and shared it frankly....love ya all!!
So do read the guests posts and leave your comments on the same....you all mean a lot to my blog and me!! :)

Something sweeter than Chocolate...

She returns home after a stressful day and is looking forward to munch on some chocolate…!! As she opens the fridge and gallops down cold water hurriedly she notices that the Cadbury she was intending to have is no where in sight!
“Where’s the Cadbury!!!??!!” she shouts.
“I ate it!!” he yells in a higher voice.
“How many times have I told you to share? I mean don’t you listen, don’t you care at all!!”
“No…I don’t sis!!” Laughs wickedly
“It’s not about a chocolate …..It’s about sharing…GOD!!!” fumes and leaves the room…
As she sits in her room irritated, she spots a half eaten Cadbury on her study table with a note…”this time I remembered you…my dear sis!!”

Laws in my life....:)))

Actually I thought of this post due to Vinnie's posts of laws!! I really loved reading those and I realised somethings that happen in my life so often, like the order of it is predecided by a supernatural power!!! Haha....I am sure all of you must be living with such laws too....

1. Just when I get to know that we have just received the movie tickets I have been waiting for, my boss calls me and informs that I have forgotten a task at office and I keep on thinking about it throughout the movie :P

2. Just when I decide to shop something cool, I realise my waist is now 2" more than what I thought it is :P

3. Just when I invite someone for dinner, and start my prep in full swing one day in advance, they inform me that they cant make it.... :P

4. Just when I finally decide what to wear for dinner (after thinking over for an hour ;)) Amit tells me not to wear it...!!

5. Just when I grab a cup of tea and sit in front of my telivision, feeling blessed....there is no signal from the cable guy (I know we have a dish net but cant install it, bucause our land lady feels that the weight of its antenna will make the building go down!!)....damn!

6. Just when I decide not to ever fight with Amit,he says something I cant resist but fight!! :P

7. Just when I am about to send my composed mail, the internet seems to dose off!!

8. Just when I sit to write a post...I go blank!!

9. Just when I read a nice post by some sweet blogger...I feel, damn I could have written about this! :P

10. Just when I feel happy that my birthday is nearing, I feel a knot in my stomach....I always wanted to remain 18 you see :P

Hey all, You can share your laws of life too...its so much fun to write them and read too!! :))

Life is such a confusion at times!

Sometimes life becomes so confusing, you have no clue whom to listen to, whom to respect, whom to love, whom to dislike....who is bad, who is good!!!
Who are we to judge anyone?? But is it so simple not to judge...is it so simple to not voice out against something you dont feel positive about!!??
Respecting someone becomes an issue.....you feel like no one is good enough to be trusted....everyone is nothing but selfish...then why do you have to be so good all the time....why cant i break the rules of the society?? Shout out loud and speak the truth....speak the right things instead of the sweet things....instead of the lovely false words!!
Is it so hard to be yourself?? Is it so hard to be true? Is it so hard to be not nice at times and still not feel bad....but we do feel bad...dont we???
Why is it so tough to become careless though you crave to be.....why is so hard to not think so much...!!
It feels like no one really knows anything....we pretend to know or just believe something others tell us to believe in!!! I want to be free of all this....want to be a free spirit...not anyone else's...only mine....just mine.......I want to watch myself in the mirror and love myself all over again....pick the pieces of me......join them and make them shine....I want to know myself.....I dont want to prove myself...I want to be carefree....
I want to laugh alone....I want to cry alone...I want to think only about myself....I want to be selfish....I want to be left alone.....I wont be lonely i know!

But its so hard.....isnt it??

p.s. I know this post wont make sense to anyone maybe....but I needed to get this out of my system...so do bear with me! I am somehow not in a mood to write about my fun weekend right now...i promise I will be my chirpy self again...need some time...adios!

Yippie!!!! (I cant think of any other title for this post!!! :D )

I am going to Mumbai tonight!!! I know I am going alone, without my hubby dearest...but I know he will have a ball even without me (with his Games , soccer on tv and loads of sleep!! :P)
So, I am going to my hometown this weekend to meet my cousin who has come down from the USA, she is like my mirror...I mean we are the best of friends....and I am meeting her after three whole years!!!! Also, her youngest son...I will meet for the first time!! I am sorry for the exclamatory marks I am typing in this post....but I am really soo excited!! To add to the fun part...I am also meeting two of my friends after ages for a nice dinner somewhere!! We are going to be like talking nonstop....I havent had a girls night out for so long...and I am really really looking forward to this weekend....I am so thrilled guys...I am going to dress my best, I am going to eat lots of yummy food, meet the best of people I havent met for so long..I am going to have a kicka** weekend!!! :D

I ll post the fun I have the next week for sure!!! Yayyy!!! :P

My guest post...

Hey friends,

I have posted a story on MsR's blog I would like you all to read.....here is the link

http://xpressive-silence.blogspot.com/2009/06/first-and-foremost-wish-you-more-and.html

Hope you all enjoy it.....:)

The ones who have read it on her blog, ignore this.

I am tagged.....10 things about myself...

I am tagged by Ms. R!! Thanks dear!!I especially loved this tag because its giving me an opportunity to think about myself (which i rarely do!) I would love to share with you all, one little piece of something! Have you seen the movie "Nannies Diaries"?? Well if you have you will know what I am talking bout, if you havent..watch it!
There is one scene in this movie, where Annie (the main character)in midst of an interview realises that she doesnt know who she really is, apart from the the basics which even others know about her, she hardly knows anything about herself!!
I mean how many of us, really know ourselves very well?? Most of the times, we know ourselves through other's opinion. Sometimes we love something others say about us, so we believe it...at times we hate what others say or think about us so we keep wondering if we are really like that?? But do we know ourselves implicitly?? Can we ignore (actually ignore) what others think about us??
Anyways, I dont want to jhadofy philosophy here...so I better begin with the tag!!

1. I am an emotional fool.I hate it.(I am trying to change it too!! )

2. I love to pamper my loved ones. I do that very often!

3. I am a cry baby.

4. I love driving cars and riding my scooty!

5. I love to read. Nothing in particular, I like different things at different times!

6. I love Italian food.

7. I Love blogging very much.

8. I want to become a successful business woman someday.

9. My dream is to buy a nice sweet cottage in Scotland, live there amidst beautiful chirping birds and lush green trees, and eat delicious meals and deserts cooked by my imaginary old sweet cook!!

10. I am a good cook myself!! :)

Now, time to tag someone! I tag everyone who will enjoy writing about themselves....whoever wants to be tagged!! :)

I goofed up! :) :)

Well well well, this post is going to be really long! (I am hoping its as funny as the real incident!! :P )

My boss handed me over the most boring assignments of all (degrading to me considering my experience and my degree :P ) but, I took it up, why? Because I did not have an option!! Recession has hit us, so you cant complain, keep thanking god that you still have a job which pays you!! :)
My task was to visit a huge campus of a Multinational Company, which consist of four buildings, named by continents (its weirdly funny because there are more than four continents , but apparently only four buildings, which leaves me thinking why in the world must have they named these building, "Americas", "Africa", "Europe" and "Asia")
So I actually had to visit all these buildings, each floor (that makes 25 floors!!) and mark the Fire extinguishers on paper, their type, weight , etc!! Being an Interior Designer by profession (a proud J. J. School of Art student...my morale was really shattered to do this kinda work) Thankfully my boss had been kind to me to have given me assistance! So we began our quest (I was trying to make it as interesting as possible in my head you see :P) on a fine morning. It took us two hours to get into the security system, the access cards and other formalities. Finally we were set and reached the first floor of Asia! It was about 50,000 sqft. of area guys!! So many people working, and amidst those we both had to go on and on, searching for fire extinguishers!! People were staring at us like we were some weird looking creatures arrived to disturb them, time and again I had tell them, "We are locating the fire extinguishers around all the buildings, to make a fire exit layout for you!!" We travelled Asia, and we were done for the day!! I mean i needed to go home, feel my home!!
But the next day, the so called quest began again, we finished touring America and headed towards Africa, in one of the floors in Africa, I realised that certain part of the floor, I was not able to access, so I approached the person in charge from their end to help me out, he informed that we would have to enter the fire exit staircase on the second floor to get to that secluded area on the first floor! Gosh I was sick!! I mean what the hell yaar...first of all I am not suppose to do this kind of work, I was speaking to myself, cribbing about the whole situation!! But then did I have an option?? We did just as he had said, and reached our destination, did our so called research and climbed down the staircase, opened the fire exit door on the ground floor, and basked out to get some fresh air!! I was relieved that the task of the day was finally over. Only one building remained!! We made our way towards the exit of the main campus....and my cell phone buzzed!! I picked it up, it was an unknown number. The voice spoke, did you just walk out of Africa from the fire exit staircase??" I promptly replied, " Yes we did, we...", the voice interupted mine," Did you notice that the fire alarm buzzed due to you!!"

I mean "Whhaaatt!!!", I said to myself! I was screwed up!! I could not find words to answer him, somehow with the battered confidence of my heart,I finally spoke,"Oh God, I am so sorry, really!! I thought they were disconnected! I caused a lot of chaos..I am really so sorry!" The voice broke out, "Well, the situation is under control now, I should have intimated to you.Anyways keep that in mind for the future!" and he cut the line.

After a little silence,I began laughing till my stomach started aching, till tears rolled down my cheeks...I mean, I had actually even managed to check their fire alarm system!!The boring and unwanted situation had suddenly turned into a hilarious one!! Though I was embarassed, I was somewhere happy too....:P I had ended up having a little pleasure mixed in work!! :)

Thats exactly when the little girl inside me becomes happy!!

Attempt at Fiction....dont know which number :P

“Mama! Mama!!” little Radha screamed. “Mama, please don’t leave me…please!”
“I cant Radha, I have work to do! You stay here with aunty, you will be fine. I can’t be with you all the time! Don’t make it so difficult everyday!!” Shweta announced in a stern voice. Radha kept screaming and crying. Shweta did not have the time to turn back, she would miss her train!

Two Years Later,

“Bye sweetie!” Shweta smilingly said to her daughter. Radha dutifully said, “Bye Mama!” The next moment Radha was busy playing with her friends. Shweta called again, “Radha dear, stay well, I will come soon to pick you up! We will have ice cream in the evening! What say?”
“Okay Mama!” Radha said, while she was engrossed in dressing her Barbie doll with her friends. Shweta headed for the road, with tears waiting to fall from her eyes, she looked back, but Radha was no where in sight!



As Shweta walked away, she did not care about her train, just wished that her daughter would be a little sad to see her go!

P.S. Its my first attempt, I might be really going wrong :P Your are welcome to criticise!! :)

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The intention of this post is not to balance my blog after my post about women. Its not something I am trying to make up for...I meant what I had said about women to the core...and I also mean what I have penned in this post.
Few friends had suggested that I write something about men too, but I did not want to do it for the heck of it, so I waited until the words were true and spontaneous.
Hope you all enjoy reading this one too :)



Sure,

Only he can forget to call her on time
Only he can worship soccer and munch on fatty food late night
Only he can party with friends and reach home midnight
Only he can be careless like he is a child

But,

Only he knows how beautiful she is from inside
Only he knows how to light up her smile
Only he knows when to be patient with her for a while
Only he knows how to handle her cranky moods at times

Only he can love her unconditionally without judging
Only he can try to understand why she picks up a fight :P
Only he knows her secrets hidden deep down inside
Only he knows how to boost her confidence and fill her heart with pride (for herself)

Only he knows what she sacrifices
Only he understands if she fails at times
Only he knows that he cannot be contented without her being around
Only sometimes he fails to let her know this exact same feeling





P.S. If we think beyond his desires to watch soccer, eat extra cheese, forget to call, etc…all we women will see is a very sweet man who is all that I have stated above. Isn’t it?
Also, all the Marathi audiences who are reading this post, please listen to a song by Salil Kulkarni and Sandeep Khare, its called “Nastes ghari tu jevha” It’s a beautiful song which portrays a man’s true and vulnerable love for his wife…it’s a very touching song.