Friday, April 24, 2009

He

The intention of this post is not to balance my blog after my post about women. Its not something I am trying to make up for...I meant what I had said about women to the core...and I also mean what I have penned in this post.
Few friends had suggested that I write something about men too, but I did not want to do it for the heck of it, so I waited until the words were true and spontaneous.
Hope you all enjoy reading this one too :)



Sure,

Only he can forget to call her on time
Only he can worship soccer and munch on fatty food late night
Only he can party with friends and reach home midnight
Only he can be careless like he is a child

But,

Only he knows how beautiful she is from inside
Only he knows how to light up her smile
Only he knows when to be patient with her for a while
Only he knows how to handle her cranky moods at times

Only he can love her unconditionally without judging
Only he can try to understand why she picks up a fight :P
Only he knows her secrets hidden deep down inside
Only he knows how to boost her confidence and fill her heart with pride (for herself)

Only he knows what she sacrifices
Only he understands if she fails at times
Only he knows that he cannot be contented without her being around
Only sometimes he fails to let her know this exact same feeling





P.S. If we think beyond his desires to watch soccer, eat extra cheese, forget to call, etc…all we women will see is a very sweet man who is all that I have stated above. Isn’t it?
Also, all the Marathi audiences who are reading this post, please listen to a song by Salil Kulkarni and Sandeep Khare, its called “Nastes ghari tu jevha” It’s a beautiful song which portrays a man’s true and vulnerable love for his wife…it’s a very touching song.

33 comments:

Amit said...

Hey you missed out mentioning a few things....he can manage to catch up on a Formula 1 race on Sundays instead of spending time with her....he can stay awake at nights and play games on the laptop...:)
But thanks a lot sweetheart!! it really means a lot to be understood and appreciated!! ;)

Aditi..............:) said...

Amit...Hahaha...yeah I missed out on that :P Never mind!!
But the bottom line is that you are special and I love you! :)

neeraj_only said...

hehe...u missed one more thing i.e : sleeping and missing date..so "sure" part can be longer.....lolz.hey aditi!!.....we guys are already decoded.....But we fail to decode u ppl :P . i know no solution of that...

thku 4 appreciating my blog template ...I shall catch more of your writing in my future visits.

btw :u must have visited aruna's blog.....hers is so yummy blog , just like ur "kitchen stories"...carry on :)

deluded said...

haha.

wish every girl could understand that!

Aditi..............:) said...

Hey Neeraj,
Yeah I agree there are many and I mean MANY things I could add to the list...but fir toh buri cheeze acche ko overshadow kar detin :P Isliye...!!
Thanks buddy for visiting!!

Aditi..............:) said...

Deluded,

Yeah I know....actually every female does know it...she acts as if she doesnt :P

Suyog said...

now i think its a kinda payback for the so called feminist post a few days back ???


very well written.........i wish every girl think the way u do !!!!

wat abt the marathi song yo mentioned ...canu gimme the link of that number ??
plzz

bbye
keep smiling like in ur pic :)

Arv said...

nicely penned :)

take care mate... cheers...

Aditi..............:) said...

Suyog,

Actually there is no need to payback....Does a man feel insecure when a women is praised for her skills ?? I hope not! :)
Thanks anyways :)

about the song, yeah you can find it on you tube..just search by its name...

Aditi..............:) said...

Arvind,

Thanks buddy for peeping into my blog and appreciating. It means a lot :)

Abhinav said...

i feel proud to be a Guy :)

Aditi..............:) said...

Abhinav,

Good!! :)

enchantinganki said...

i agree..tats how the guys aree...!

Aneeket said...

Haha... I am definitely asking someone to read this :p

Satans Darling™ said...

Wow, first of all congrats on the new look of your blog :)

Now the poem, it's so sweet! And soo true! And I have heard that song you mentioned in the P.S!!! It's a nice one :)

I loved this work! Gonna show it to my better half now ;)

Aditi..............:) said...

enchantinganki,

yeah i know :) thanks for visiting and taking out time to read!! :)

Aditi..............:) said...

Aneeket,
your comment was a pleasant surprise....yeah you better show it to her....well we girls need to be reminded about this time and again...but you guys are lazy to do that too!!! :P

Aditi..............:) said...

Satans Draling (Arshita),

Thanks a million for noticing the new look of my blog...no one noticed :P
Thanks for the words you have said for my poem too...also when you show to him...let me know his reaction :P

Vinnie said...

hmmmmm...yeh andar ki baath hain...jo shayad hum aurthen jaanthi hain:)
phir bhi 'fight' karthi hain!!

very cute poem...n just heard that marathi number on youtube...soothing n very beautiful! i like ur choice of pictures here..especially the first one:)

thanks for sharing this, Aditi!

Urv said...

:)

Aditi..............:) said...

Vinnie,

Thanks dear!! and good to know that you loved the song...:)

Aditi..............:) said...

Urv,

:) :)

Tapas said...
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Tapas said...

Really liked it !!! For d frst time I read someone trying to understand men...most of d times it's d same "Men are dogs!' thing !

Aditi..............:) said...

Tapas,

Thanks so much!!! :)

Nikita said...

loved it...
believed every word of it...
its beautiful...
true to its core...

love readin your blog..:)

Aditi..............:) said...

Nikita,

Thanks a lot Nikita!! Sorry to reply on your comment so late :(
thanks a ton for dropping by my blog ...will visit yours too!! :)

Mads said...

why did u do this...now the guys will walk in the air, more than ever :P
its true...we crib and insult guys on so many things..but at the end of the day, the pigs mean so much to us =) :D
template looks cute btw :D

Aditi..............:) said...

Hey Mads,

Thanks a bunch for taking out and reading and also commenting on every post...so sweet of you!!!
Am really bad nah?? :)

harshada said...

very sweet! I agree they do miss us a lot :)

Shubha said...

Adi yaar wt should i say about u.... I just loved this post of urs...:) Its so true and so from the heart.... beautifully written... AMit is really lucky to get u...:) god bless u both

Aditi..............:) said...

Harshada,

Thanks sweetie!!! :P

Aditi..............:) said...

Shubha,

Thanks a bunch dear!! I bet Radha is equally lucky!! :)