Wednesday, October 17, 2007

Love is .....


16 days to go…….and the most waited day will arrive in my life! My wedding day is here! The wonder years of courtship are ending…..the best time any couple can enjoy is when they are in college, carefree and untouched by responsibity! They create their own world and can stay there without any fear…..they make bubbles of dreams and blow them with soft blows ……..hoping that these dreams fly high and come true………..they are in bliss!!
Just some days ago I read a blog where a friend had written about love. I couldn’t stop myself from thinking and pondering those days when I and Amit had the best time of our life. We both were carefree college goers actually bunkers….to be right!!
There are stages in a relationship….when it is fresh and new it has its charm …..but its not yet steady…..its still to survive many ups and downs…….the talks are about which movies can be watched….which restaurant is new…….which coffee shop is cool…..what time will we talk next….when will we meet next and where will we meet next……….
When the relationship grows with more faith in each other ……mincing the insecurities….it shines….its stronger than before………the talks rise to a different level……the talks are about studying further……….talking about funding the same……….talking bout the wedding plans…..talking about where to settle……….and more importantly ….. settle financially….of course that doesn’t mean the romantic talks end…and one is missed less….or more….its just that the priorities change…..you grow up!
I and Amit are towards the end of the second stage and just about to venture into the next stage which I would be able to share only after I live that time……

Of course this is my view point …….opinions may differ……but the magic of love remains…the essence of it stays…..and the world becomes a much better place to live once you have found love and learnt to cherish it. And also keep it fresh even if it’s very old……it should be like wine…..the older the better…

Now that I am getting married to the man of my dreams………I am looking forward to an adventurous and power puffed yet subtle and romantic life ……

4 comments:

Amit said...

hey that was a cool surprise...never thought it would be something like this. its really amazing the way u express yourself. i hope i can learn something like this from you. :)

Mann said...

Hey Aditi

This one was beautiful... no wonder Amit spent a few min from his ulta busy schedule to comment on it... I really pray that u both mature as the loveliest possible wine... and I wish I could ealk a similar path in my life too... keep writing more of these.

Prachi said...

hey aditi :) your thoughts always echo my emotions so well...
so true...a relationship does mature like wine and the older it gets, the more the flavour....
wish you both a lovely life ahead...

dumb_ank said...

u grew up together, should be easier now on. best of luck dear, have a great wedding.