Something sweeter than Chocolate...

She returns home after a stressful day and is looking forward to munch on some chocolate…!! As she opens the fridge and gallops down cold water hurriedly she notices that the Cadbury she was intending to have is no where in sight!
“Where’s the Cadbury!!!??!!” she shouts.
“I ate it!!” he yells in a higher voice.
“How many times have I told you to share? I mean don’t you listen, don’t you care at all!!”
“No…I don’t sis!!” Laughs wickedly
“It’s not about a chocolate …..It’s about sharing…GOD!!!” fumes and leaves the room…
As she sits in her room irritated, she spots a half eaten Cadbury on her study table with a note…”this time I remembered you…my dear sis!!”

My Dad Bestest!!!

It’s also father’s day on my birthday this year!!! So how could I miss out on such a special occasion of writing something about my father!! I have always been gifting my mom, but dad I haven’t gifted that much, because he was away most times. When ever he was with us, we would do something special…
I remember one time, dad was coming home after a year I, my mom and my brother had renovated the whole house in 3 days…that’s it! We had changed wall papers; brought new bed sheets…table cloths…etc! He is very fond of all this, I mean he loves to have a beautiful house, also extremely clean and organized!!  Sometimes it’s hard for us to cope with this…but it’s amusing!
He has always been a guide, he never taught us anything, explained us the right things in the form of stories, even today if he wants to convey something to me, he puts it in a story and says it. He addresses us as his diamonds, in every single mail...and I love it! : P
He never said “no” to anything we wanted, once I was in a shop with mom and dad and we were actually shopping for my mom, but I (as usual) fell in love with this beautiful dress and I expressed it to them, with an expression as if I was okay even they didn’t buy it for me!! My mom doesn’t generally fall prey to my tricks, so she was very clear not to buy it for me….she knew I would not use it…..she knew me….and she was actually right, I dint need to buy anything actually. So we finally did not buy it, poor mom also did not buy anything for her! But then dad was observing me…my crooked face and fake maturity….so he just smiled at me and drove back to that shop and bought it for me!! My mom also laughed her heart out, when she looked at my pleased face!! :P
I haven’t seen a person who is
More Generous than him
More patient than him
More loving than him
More principled than him
More dedicated than him
He has beenan ideal son to my grandparents…they wouldn’t agree more too! Of course he is the best dad in the whole world!!! I love him so much and he is going to get two gifts, one of them too special….my mom is visiting him in Lagos this weekend …she will there for three whole months…..also we have sent a gift for him…..wont disclose now, he reads my blogs!! 
Love you baba….too much….more than you will ever know!

Laws in my life....:)))

Actually I thought of this post due to Vinnie's posts of laws!! I really loved reading those and I realised somethings that happen in my life so often, like the order of it is predecided by a supernatural power!!! Haha....I am sure all of you must be living with such laws too....

1. Just when I get to know that we have just received the movie tickets I have been waiting for, my boss calls me and informs that I have forgotten a task at office and I keep on thinking about it throughout the movie :P

2. Just when I decide to shop something cool, I realise my waist is now 2" more than what I thought it is :P

3. Just when I invite someone for dinner, and start my prep in full swing one day in advance, they inform me that they cant make it.... :P

4. Just when I finally decide what to wear for dinner (after thinking over for an hour ;)) Amit tells me not to wear it...!!

5. Just when I grab a cup of tea and sit in front of my telivision, feeling blessed....there is no signal from the cable guy (I know we have a dish net but cant install it, bucause our land lady feels that the weight of its antenna will make the building go down!!)....damn!

6. Just when I decide not to ever fight with Amit,he says something I cant resist but fight!! :P

7. Just when I am about to send my composed mail, the internet seems to dose off!!

8. Just when I sit to write a post...I go blank!!

9. Just when I read a nice post by some sweet blogger...I feel, damn I could have written about this! :P

10. Just when I feel happy that my birthday is nearing, I feel a knot in my stomach....I always wanted to remain 18 you see :P

Hey all, You can share your laws of life too...its so much fun to write them and read too!! :))

Life is such a confusion at times!

Sometimes life becomes so confusing, you have no clue whom to listen to, whom to respect, whom to love, whom to dislike....who is bad, who is good!!!
Who are we to judge anyone?? But is it so simple not to judge...is it so simple to not voice out against something you dont feel positive about!!??
Respecting someone becomes an issue.....you feel like no one is good enough to be trusted....everyone is nothing but selfish...then why do you have to be so good all the time....why cant i break the rules of the society?? Shout out loud and speak the truth....speak the right things instead of the sweet things....instead of the lovely false words!!
Is it so hard to be yourself?? Is it so hard to be true? Is it so hard to be not nice at times and still not feel bad....but we do feel bad...dont we???
Why is it so tough to become careless though you crave to be.....why is so hard to not think so much...!!
It feels like no one really knows anything....we pretend to know or just believe something others tell us to believe in!!! I want to be free of all this....want to be a free spirit...not anyone else's...only mine....just mine.......I want to watch myself in the mirror and love myself all over again....pick the pieces of me......join them and make them shine....I want to know myself.....I dont want to prove myself...I want to be carefree....
I want to laugh alone....I want to cry alone...I want to think only about myself....I want to be selfish....I want to be left alone.....I wont be lonely i know!

But its so hard.....isnt it??

p.s. I know this post wont make sense to anyone maybe....but I needed to get this out of my system...so do bear with me! I am somehow not in a mood to write about my fun weekend right now...i promise I will be my chirpy self again...need some time...adios!

Yippie!!!! (I cant think of any other title for this post!!! :D )

I am going to Mumbai tonight!!! I know I am going alone, without my hubby dearest...but I know he will have a ball even without me (with his Games , soccer on tv and loads of sleep!! :P)
So, I am going to my hometown this weekend to meet my cousin who has come down from the USA, she is like my mirror...I mean we are the best of friends....and I am meeting her after three whole years!!!! Also, her youngest son...I will meet for the first time!! I am sorry for the exclamatory marks I am typing in this post....but I am really soo excited!! To add to the fun part...I am also meeting two of my friends after ages for a nice dinner somewhere!! We are going to be like talking nonstop....I havent had a girls night out for so long...and I am really really looking forward to this weekend....I am so thrilled guys...I am going to dress my best, I am going to eat lots of yummy food, meet the best of people I havent met for so long..I am going to have a kicka** weekend!!! :D

I ll post the fun I have the next week for sure!!! Yayyy!!! :P

My guest post...

Hey friends,

I have posted a story on MsR's blog I would like you all to read.....here is the link

http://xpressive-silence.blogspot.com/2009/06/first-and-foremost-wish-you-more-and.html

Hope you all enjoy it.....:)

The ones who have read it on her blog, ignore this.

I am tagged.....10 things about myself...

I am tagged by Ms. R!! Thanks dear!!I especially loved this tag because its giving me an opportunity to think about myself (which i rarely do!) I would love to share with you all, one little piece of something! Have you seen the movie "Nannies Diaries"?? Well if you have you will know what I am talking bout, if you havent..watch it!
There is one scene in this movie, where Annie (the main character)in midst of an interview realises that she doesnt know who she really is, apart from the the basics which even others know about her, she hardly knows anything about herself!!
I mean how many of us, really know ourselves very well?? Most of the times, we know ourselves through other's opinion. Sometimes we love something others say about us, so we believe it...at times we hate what others say or think about us so we keep wondering if we are really like that?? But do we know ourselves implicitly?? Can we ignore (actually ignore) what others think about us??
Anyways, I dont want to jhadofy philosophy here...so I better begin with the tag!!

1. I am an emotional fool.I hate it.(I am trying to change it too!! )

2. I love to pamper my loved ones. I do that very often!

3. I am a cry baby.

4. I love driving cars and riding my scooty!

5. I love to read. Nothing in particular, I like different things at different times!

6. I love Italian food.

7. I Love blogging very much.

8. I want to become a successful business woman someday.

9. My dream is to buy a nice sweet cottage in Scotland, live there amidst beautiful chirping birds and lush green trees, and eat delicious meals and deserts cooked by my imaginary old sweet cook!!

10. I am a good cook myself!! :)

Now, time to tag someone! I tag everyone who will enjoy writing about themselves....whoever wants to be tagged!! :)